Fear has a way of crawling into the shadows of our minds, hampering our creative potential and inhibiting our desire to write. We worry about what others will think, whether our words will be good enough, and if our stories are worth sharing. It’s a struggle many of us face, myself included. However, my journey through this fear and into the realm of authenticity was sparked by an unexpected event that reshaped my perspective forever.
For years, fear held me captive, even as I managed to maintain a regular writing practice. I found myself grappling with self-doubt, wondering if my thoughts and ideas were truly valid. Could I be too outspoken? Did I possess enough talent? Were my experiences significant enough to share? I hear these same fears from my clients in my women writers network, Inspired Writer Community, too. They are all too common among writers.
This inner battle persisted until something happened that changed everything – I watched the World Trade Center collapse. As the news of the planes hitting the Twin Towers reached me, I was drawn to the rooftop of our building, watching in horror as the buildings crumbled and billowing clouds of debris rolled toward me. In that heart-stopping moment, the fragility of life became starkly evident. All the fears and uncertainties that had held me back from writing with authenticity suddenly paled in comparison to the enormity of the world’s challenges.
Witnessing such a monumental tragedy propelled me to shift my perspective. If I could confront the face of terror and find the strength to endure, then surely I could muster the courage to write my unfiltered truth. The fear that once confined my words began to lose its grip as I committed to share my story, regardless of the potential criticism or judgment.
Let’s be honest, fear doesn’t magically disappear overnight. When you’re on a journey to explore your genuine voice, you’re bound to encounter skeptics and naysayers. Sometimes, even the voices in your own head. Yet, taking those initial small steps can be incredibly liberating. Share one personal anecdote, then another. Attempt to write that book you’ve always dreamed of writing. Pitch an article that reflects your passion and beliefs. As you venture further along this path, you’ll notice the fear diminishing and your authentic voice growing stronger.
For me, the impact of 9/11 extended beyond its immediate aftermath. In Argentina, where I eventually settled with my family, this date coincides with Dia del Maestra, a day that celebrates teachers. This serendipitous connection reshaped my perception of this day from one of sorrow and tragedy to an occasion of empowerment and growth. It’s a reminder that fear doesn’t need to be a paralyzing force; rather, it can be the catalyst for transformation and inspiration.
My newfound perspective led me to make choices I never would have considered before. Selling our belongings, my family and I embarked on a journey of full-time travel, eventually settling in Argentina. This decision not only provided me with fresh experiences but also amplified my repertoire of stories and ideas.
Ultimately, embracing my authentic voice became a beacon of hope and connection. It highlighted the power of sharing our stories, even when our voices tremble with uncertainty. We all have stories to tell, and someone out there needs to hear them. Our vulnerability becomes a lifeline for others who may be grappling with their fears and doubts.
So, I ask you: What will you choose in the face of fear? Will you let it confine you to silence, or will you courageously share your story anyway? Instead of avoiding what scares you, consider it the starting point of your next adventure. Embrace the support of online writing groups or writing mentorship programs for support. There is nothing quite like the power of community among writers.
Fear may be where the journey begins, but authenticity and connection are where it leads.
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