Aug 10, 2021 | Failure and Rejection, Inspiration, Publishing
The post has been a labor of love. It’s something I believe in strongly, because it frustrates me to see how many talented, creative people give up after experiencing failure and rejection. They’re a beast to push through, but failure and rejection aren’t simply...
Aug 3, 2021 | Failure and Rejection, Publishing, Writing
We don’t talk about self-care for writers nearly enough. If you read my newsletter, you know I’m looking for a publisher for one book and an agent for another. This means I want to publish in a market everyone says is one of the most difficult times to publish a...
Nov 22, 2019 | Failure and Rejection, Inspiration, Reading
If you fear rejection, you’re not alone. The problem is, your fear of rejection holds you back. It makes you hesitate before you write a pitch and tells you that no one wants to read your story anyway. Thus you resist doing the work that needs to be done if you want...
Aug 23, 2019 | Failure and Rejection, Inspiration, Strategy
Do you know why the fear of failure overwhelms so many of us? It’s because we’re taught from a young age to avoid making mistakes. The school system is a major offender of making us fear our mistakes. School too often offers an incredibly misguided lesson as it...
Mar 22, 2019 | Failure and Rejection, Inspiration, Writing
Confidence is an interesting phenomenon. You can have 99 positive interactions or good things happen, but all it takes is one piece of negative feedback and suddenly you’re a terrible writer/parent/person. Deep down, you know that’s not true, but it can be really hard...
Mar 1, 2019 | Craft, Failure and Rejection, Inspiration
Writing a book is a magical thing, and often seems that some people just know how to do it. The rest of us just don’t. My best book writing advice to you? Writing is more than the end product. It’s a process with many twists and turns. It’s frustrating, exhilarating,...